The third option is to seal after installation
Again, the application process is not complex but must be followed precisely. You should ideally seal before pointing. This method is, however, weather dependent, which can be difficult in the UK climate.
In order for natural stone sealant to work properly it needs to be applied in dry and, ideally, warm conditions. Over winter especially, these conditions can't be guaranteed and, even though paving may look dry, it could be very damp inside. If sealant is applied in these conditions, it will simply fail, resulting in unsightly white blooming on the surface of the stone.
If the paving is already laid and pointed, it's not the end of the world. Leave sealing till winter is well and truly past. It might get messy over the colder months but, when better conditions arrive, clean and seal the stone.